“It feels like I’m constantly holding myself back. If I try to relax instead of chasing my business or personal goals, it feels like I’m letting myself down. Yet, if things start going too well, I feel gripped by anxiety, like something bad will happen if I shine too brightly.
I’m sure my past has something to do with it because if I received too much attention from teachers for doing well in school, my younger sister would stop talking to me, and my mother would make comments like, ‘So you think you’re better than us now?’
It’s so frustrating because I’m the one people come to for support and advice. It seems like I can help everyone else feel good about succeeding in life, but myself. I feel so stuck, but I don’t want anyone to know this, so I push it down and put on a smile. I’ve been doing this for so long that it’s come to a point where I can’t take this feeling of being alone or feeling anxious anymore. Do you think you can help me?”
I’ve lost count of how many people have shared some version of that story with me over the years. I feel alone. I’m full of anxiety. I can’t seem to relax or let my guards down. I’m stressed out if I succeed or if I don’t. Siblings and parents made me feel wrong, bad, selfish, unworthy, not good enough, unsupported, etc.
Often the most frustrating part, specifically for leaders, entrepreneurs, coaches, therapists, healers, and anyone in the “helping” profession, is that we’ve gone through A LOT of personal development work to free ourselves from the past. So why then are we still struggling with these frustrating and issues?
Allow me to share a story with you.
The other day, I walked through my backyard and saw a weed near one of my rose bushes. I reached deep into the ground to grab the weed at its base, hoping this would pull the root of the weed out. If you only tear the top of the weed off without removing the foundation, it will just grow back again. I tugged at the weed and was shocked by how long the root was. Writing about it wasn’t enough, so check out the picture below.
The root was about eight inches long. If I had pulled the top of the weed out, it would grow back, as previously mentioned. How, if I pulled three or even five inches of the root out, it would STILL have grown back, and that’s why so much of the self-help experiences people go through do not produce the lasting results they desire! The foundation (root) of their insecurities goes farther back and are deeper than most realize.
So what do you do when feeling alone or anxious? Seek out the root of the problem and yank it out! The foundation of human insecurity and needless emotional suffering is a set of faulty beliefs that make us feel like we are not good or worthy enough to feel happy, secure, and prosperous.
After decades of helping people with this, I can assuredly say the problems you may be having are likely NOT because of what you’re experiencing at the moment. Instead, you’re reacting to these situations based on how you were “programmed” to respond as a child.
Therefore, the quickest and most effective way to upgrade your mental and emotional programming is by going through my Awakening Experiences.
You can take three paths for this:
- The One Belief Away book ($17.99)
- The Awakening online program ($247)
- The 30-Day Breakthrough private coaching package ($1500)
Many choose all three options to maximize their positive outcomes. That is up to you.
I began my journey to eliminate insecurity, anxiety, and feelings of being alone at 18. I’m now 51 years old and have learned a tremendous amount about feeling safe, confident, and happy, regardless of what’s happening in life. The tools in those programs (paths) produce the most reliable and significant outcomes and breakthroughs, and they will immediately enhance the quality of your life.
So get started today, and you’ll never feel alone again because you’ll always be with your best friend, you!
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WEEKLY LIVE STREAMS
Every Wednesday from 2:30pm – 3pm (Central Time), I’ll be live streaming on my YouTube, Linkedin, and Facebook channels to help people remove mental blocks, attain goals, and live more joyful lives. If we aren’t connected on those channels, please do so now. Visit any of those channels to review the previous live streams. You’ll LOVE them!
Past topics include:
- #1 Leadership Action That Lowers High Employee Cost!
- How The Best Leaders Think!
- How To Shift From Anxious To Resilient in 60 Seconds!
- Why Hypnosis Will Help You Bust Bad Habits Fast!
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LATEST PODCAST INTERVIEWS
If you haven’t subscribed to my How To Be Mesmerizing podcast, you are in for a treat! I’ve been interviewing some of the most amazing people and brightest minds on the planet.
I’ve also been interviewed on numerous podcasts and radio programs around the country. My latest interview was on From Fear To Fire with author and TEDx speaker, Heather Hansen O’Neill.
Podcast audio: http://heatherhansenoneill.com/2021/07/08/mental-malware-with-tim-shurr/
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FEATURED PROGRAM OF THE WEEK
Prosperity Mindset Program – $77
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If you are a high-performing person, or you want to be, but you’ve fallen into a rut and can’t seem to get out of it, start using the Prosperity Mindset program today and GAIN MOMENTUM!
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UPCOMING LIVE CLASS
In September 2021, I’ll be hosting another one of my extraordinary Design Your Destiny live events in Indianapolis! This is a life-transforming experience where you’ll triumph over obstacles, both past and current, and start designing your dream life with the support of a powerful team! More details to come…
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QUOTE FOR THE WEEK
“Want to be happy and successful? Love and accept yourself unconditionally. Everything else will fall into place.” TS
